Yeah, you are fresh meat until you get 10 posts ... then you are labeled "Member". I know it is kind of phallic, but I don't think you will mind very much
I think at 25 you will be labeled "big member" then at 100 you are a "huge member" : Just kidding.
Welcome to the Demented Militia friend.
I like your avatar ... it makes me think about getting a ..... WOOHOO!
Don't worry about dropping out of games ... family comes first every time.
If you have any questions: don't hesitate to ask.